Oh memory

Why do people misjudge other people so easily. Assume the things that they are not. Since my ex-colleague told me abt the 5 languages of love, it made me more aware of what each person need in their rs. Not everyone wants the same thing to feel loved. I got cold and immune to the things around me cos it's not exactly what i want. But some people just don't get it yet. Cos it's not about the quantity, but it's all about the quality(time). But anyhoo, i will still be the bad guy. :)